My girlfriend is bisexual
The V-Spot with Yana Tallon-Hicks: How act I tell my girlfriend that I’m bisexual?
Hello Yana!
I’m curious about my sexuality. I have, for the majority of my life, reflection I was a heterosexual male. But at times I have thought maybe I am attracted to both genders. I’m aware that sexuality is a spectrum. I just don’t know where I land on that spectrum.
I contain a lovely girlfriend of over a year whom I love very much and I wish to tell her what I’m feeling but I don’t really know what to say. If that makes feeling could you propose some clarity on how to inform her?
I know it’s very easy for me to request someone for aid but I’m scared to tell someone this is how I feel. Even though I realize she will be accepting, I still find it tough, though. Some guidance would be great.
Thanks!
On the Brink of Bi
Dear Brink,
You appear to think that you need to know just “how bisexual” you are before you include this conversation with your girlfriend. The nice thing about viewing sexuality as a spectrum is that you actually don’t. Not only does a sexuality spectrum hold a wide range of identity options, it’s also
13 things you should comprehend before dating a bi girl
1. We exist. We weren't just waiting for you to come along and help us construct up our minds. Sorry. Please don't go down the pub and reveal your mates you've "turned" a lesbian. You really haven't.
2. We're not going to be defined by our relationship with you. As a bi woman, being in a same-sex couple doesn't build us a lesbian, any more than being in an opposite-sex couple makes us straight. Don't erase our identities and pasts.
3. "Way-hey, fancy a threesome?" is not a good chat-up line. OMG NO. Never. Bisexual does not equal non-monogamous. Perform not assume. And if you do find a bi girl who isn't into exclusive relationships, it's still a really shit chat-up line and will immediately lessen your chances of most women continuing the conversation, let alone open any doors to hot group-sex action. Yes, even on OKCupid. If only you could observe our faces when we open the fifth threesome message of the day…
4. You can reliance us just as much as any other teen. Bi women are no more likely to break trust on you than
DEAR DR. NERDLOVE: I’ve never asked for advice before and I don’t recognize if this is your lane or not but maybe you can aid me. None of my friends have, anyway.
I (M/34) had been dating “Sarah” (F/28) for over a year, a little under two. The last couple months we were together were rough; we weren’t arguing or fighting, but we definitely weren’t having a great time and we eventually agreed that we were looking for different things from this relationship and we ended it. This wasn’t something I did easily or lightly; I was really crazy about her, but even I had to admit it wasn’t working.
Well it’s been barely three months and I’m still dealing and feeling terrible about it and then I go on Instagram and I can witness that Sarah’s already got a new guy. Her IG is nothing but cutesy videos of her and her boyfriend and pictures of the two of them and her talking about how marvelous he is and how lucky she is… all the usual stuff.
Doc, I can’t tell you how much this hurts. I’m sitting here on my couch feeling like s--t and she’s all lovey-dovey with a new guy. I feel like it’s a slap in the fa
Dating Bi-Curious Girls: Tips To Support Your Relationship Succeed
Bisexuality among women is the fastest growing area of the LGBTQ+ community, and has been for some occasion. While this may be in part because acceptance of bisexuality is growing, many women who identify as bisexual still store that fact to themselves – especially when dating a CIS male. If your girlfriend tells you they are bi-curious – i.e., someone who is attracted to both sexes but does not identify as bisexual – what does that really mean? Is it something that can destroy your relationship? Should you support your girlfriend in exploring their sexuality? And if so, how? This article covers tips to help your connection with a bi-curious girl succeed.
Bi-curious vs. bisexual
A person who is bi-curious is usually unsure about their sexuality. They may possess historically identified as straight, but are finding themselves attracted to both men and women. They may be interested in experimenting with someone of the similar sex but don’t identify as bisexual – at least not yet.
Overall, women may be more attracted to