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Dear How to Execute It,
I am a year-old man who has been married to a chick for 45 years, with three grown kids. Over the course of our marriage, we have been very active sexually, but for various reasons over the past five or six years, our sexual activity has declined dramatically. At the same hour, over the past several years, I have change into fascinated with same-sex encounters. Is this unusual, especially this late in life? How should approach this with my wife
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Rob rushed into his first session with me, gym bag on one shoulder, briefcase on the other, 10 minutes late and out of breath. He set his bags down, gently put his Blackberry on the table in front of him, and heaved himself onto the couch. He sighed and began: &#;Okay, I&#;m gay, I&#;m married, I possess three kids, and I&#;m not getting divorced.&#; He&#;d mutual some of this information with me in our smartphone conversation, but I was still struck by the instinct of hopelessness in his tone. As he paused, awaiting my response, quite honestly, I was awaiting my response as well. I knew this was not Rob&#;s first experience in therapy and that a lot was riding on what I was about to say.
Rob had been referred by a former client of mine he&#;d met in an Alcoholics Anonymous meeting. Just out of alcohol rehabilitation treatment, he&#;d begun attending AA meetings, where he&#;d shared parts of his story. He described a prolonged struggle with his sexual orientation, growing up in a devoutly Roman Catholic family, where he learned that his sexual attraction
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A married man curious about sex with another man cheats on his wife and daughter &#;and who pays when his long-term sexual affair moves from the shadows into the light?
By Christopher Turner
A man’s libido &#; his sex drive &#; is sometimes tamed by age when his sexual experiences become numerous enough that he can glance back and ask if he left anyone injured or damaged in his quest for sexual fulfillment.
Another observation &#; just as relevant &#; is how his sexual conduct reflects on his ideal of being a man.
What are the costs, and who pays, when a man who conducted himself as heterosexual into adulthood caves to his curiosity about sex with another man? Are both men complicit in a deception when the curious one is married and has an infant daughter? And who is to “blame” for the fallout when the deception comes out of the shadows into the light?
It had been an especially rough work week for one of the men he pulled into a city park on an early Saturday morning more than 22 years ago. The park was popular and frequented for its extensive and scenic wo
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