Gay hanky color code
When two men are negotiating a sexual encounter or even compatibility to outing, the phrase “What are you into?” will inevitably come from one or both.. Quite often in “Grindr” chat, this is shortened to be simply “into?” — just favor ships used cyphers (flags) to communicate, we male lover men have our control way to communicate sexual preferences and proclivities. It’s called the Hanky Code.
Originating in the early ’s in either New York or San Francisco (let’s not even try to settle that debate), the hanky code is a system of signaling sexual preferences, fetishes, and roles by choosing to wear a specifically colored bandana on a particular side of the body. With just a glance at your rear end, (the bandana being tucked in your back pocket) anyone who is in-the-know will know what you’re “into!”
So how do you perceive which color to wear, and where to wear it? The first critical variable is the side of the body on which you choose to wear your colors, because this signals your preferred role:
- Left side of the body = Top/Dominant Role
- Right side of the body = Bottom/Submissive Role
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Hanky codes
SqrlCub1
In gay animation there is a thing called the hanky code where it basically advertizes what you fond to have done to you or do to other people. It makes a difference with color and which pocket you wear it in (the right pocket is the receiver the left is the giver).
Blue - anal sex
yellow - watersports
beige - rimming
red - fisting
marroon - double fisting
white - masterbation
black - s & m
grey - light s & m
pink - toys (I think)
There are many others, I just can’t think of them right now. Is there some type of straight equivalent to this? Crave any more information?
HUGS!
Sqrl
Move over Satan. Now there’s something meatier.
Coldfire2
Yeah, I heard about the gay hanky code.
As far as I know, the straight corresponding is something like stumbling up to that gorgeous blonde whilst extremely drunk, then shouting in her ear to top the loud disco music:
“Hey baby ! Fancy a shag ?”
I assume I’m no good, code-wise…
We’ll leave the subtleties of being to our gay friends
Coldfire
“You know how complex women are”
Gaudere3
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Fifty Shades of Gay – The Hanky Code
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