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Unpopular Opinion: The Issue With ‘Gay Culture’
I possess never felt ‘connected’ to gay culture in any meaningful way, nor include I ever wished to become so. I left the first pride procession I ever attended disgusted. Men dressed scantily and sexually, leather and harnesses worn as if they intended to go to the derby and wound up confused on 5th Street instead. The authenticity is that gay identity appears to me to center too heavily on sex, with a lack of community outside of this. The further issue with this is that it is forced onto us by other homosexual men within this ‘community.’ Ultimately, this is a very difficult discussion to hold. If I declare gay culture is sexual, I’m told straight society is equally as sexual, as well. If I say I don’t aspire to be in the ‘community,’ I’m told I have internalized homophobia. Discussing gay culture is essentially a catch where you can’t make an in-roads without incurring steep criticism from other gay men. Furthermore, research done on this topic is practically non-existent. The only discussions you can find online come from forums such as Reddit. And I challe
Raise the Hammer
Hamilton Is Not a Guarded Space
Those who continue complacent in the face of hatred and violence display their tacit endorsement of the status quo. Period.
By Myke Hutchings
Published June 27,
The tangled City Hall Celebration Flag is an apt metaphor for the City's bond with the Queer community (RTH file photo)
I awoke this morning to the sound of closet doors slamming seal throughout Hamilton.
I watched last night's council meeting on livestream with great wrath and horror, and followed the various twitter feeds of media and attendees.
I am ashamed to call myself a citizen of Hamilton.
I am ashamed that I have given the past 20 years of my life advocating for this city as a musician and as a member of the 2SLGBTQIA+ community.
I've given 20 years of my life to this city, organizing, starting LGBTQ friendly events and groups, advocating for transit and accessibility - and last night was the best demonstrate that Hamilton Metropolis Council can carry out to show the city is "The Best Place to Raise a Child."
Apparently not children who identify as 2SLGBTQIA+ or the children
Like so many of us, I have been on countless “dates” with other women and nb folks where I have been left wondering if we were hanging out as friends, potential romantic partners, or something in between. However, this past spring I decided that we’re all gonna die one day and I’ve gotta get real loyal about what I’m doing on this planet and how I’m spending my time. Then, a mega babe DMed me on Instagram (my favorite dating app) to compliment a cheese board I’d made myself for dinner (see: we’re all gonna expire one day, live your top life etc.) I asked if she’d like to come over one night and have me make cheese boards for both of us. She said yes. We picked a Monday evening (is Monday evening a meet night?) and she left a cute comment on a selfie I posted that day. She showed up with sparkling liquid and a bouquet of purple flowers, to match the lipstick I was wearing in the selfie. I made us two elaborate cheese boards and we set up a blanket in my backyard and ate, drank, and talked for a not many hours.
I didn’t get very flirty vibes from our conversation, and we weren’t physical
Savage Love: Are Homosexual Guys Just Kinkier?
I have a question. I'm a gay man in a relationship and we're both really happy since we met a year ago. We're "open" in the sense that he wants the option to be intimate with someone else if a connection happens and in twist he said he would be supportive of me being involved in my kinks. But I haven't done anything yet out of fear. I'm not afraid of my kinks. I'm worried that if I ask to proceed do something kinky it will ruin our affair . I don't think he was bluffing when he said it was okay for me to scout my kinks with other guys, but it worries me. I tend to repress the kink part of my sexuality and I'm worried that him knowing I want to act on it will cause issues. My boyfriend/girlfriend and I are so balanced but in the kink aspects of my life I'm a yielding and need to occupy in power exchange with someone. I miss organism able to express these things and it feels like there's a void in my life. That might sound silly, bu